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یکشنبه 3 مهر 1390 :: نویسنده : مصطفی سلیمانی
 

پرسش:

 من با خانمی که شوهر داشت رابطه داشتم توبه کردم ولی عذاب وجدان دارم چکار کنم؟

رابطه با زن شوهر دار

پاسخ در ادامه مطلب:

 

پرسش:

 من با خانمی که شوهر داشت رابطه داشتم توبه کردم ولی عذاب وجدان دارم چکار کنم؟

رابطه با زن شوهر دار

پاسخ:

دوست عزیز! زنا و رابطه نامشروع، مخصوصا با زن شوهر دار یکی از گناهان بسیار بزرگ و مفاسد اجتماعی است که باعث خسارت های جبران ناپذیر است؛ به همین جهت اسلام آنر ا حرام دانسته و با آن شدیدا مبارزه نموده است. خداوند در قرآن فرموده است: " و نزدیک زنا نشوید، که کار بسیار زشت، و بد راهی است". (1)

 ولی بزرگی خداوند و وسعت مهربانی او به حدی است، که اگر گنهکاری که مرتکب چنین عمل زشت و شنیعی شده و واقعا از کردۀ خود پشیمان باشد و تصمیم جدی بر ترک گناه و جبران بدی خود بگیرد، امید بخشش و آمرزش او از طرف خدای مهربان بسیار زیاد است.

بنا براین اگر خواهان نجات هستید با امید به عفو و بخشش الهی باید بدون اینکه کسی را از گناه خود باخبر سازید هر چه زودتر بین و خود و خدای خود اقدام به توبه واقعی کنید.

  آثار شوم زنا در کلام معصومین (ع):

پیامبر اکرم (ص) فرمود: زنا دارای زیان‏های دنیوی و اخروی است،امّا در دنیا: از بین رفتن نورانیّت و زیبایی انسان، مرگ زودرس و قطع روزی و امّا در آخرت: درماندگی، هنگام حساب قیامت غضب الاهی و جهنّم همیشگی.

از پیامبر (ص) نقل شده است: هر گاه زنا زیاد شود، مرگ ناگهانی هم زیاد می‏شود.

زنا نکنید، تا همسران شما نیز به زنا آلوده نشوند. هر که به ناموس دیگران تجاوز کند، به ناموسش تجاوز خواهد شد. همان گونه که با دیگران رفتار کنید، با شما رفتار خواهد شد. (2)

با عذاب وجدان چه کنم؟

کسی که در اثر یادآوری گناه خودش، اذیت می شود، این علامت این است که خدا دوستش دارد. خدا کسی را که دوست ندارد کاری می کند که گناه برایش مهم نباشد. عذاب وجدان خیلی انسان را رشد می دهد. شخصیت انسان را معنوی تر خواهد کرد. انسان را از گناه فاصله خواهد داد. منتهی این عذا ب وجدان را باید کنار خدا داشته باشیم . نه تنهایی که موجب افسردگی بشود. بچه ای که مادرش را گم کرده، اول مادرش را پیدا می کند و بعد در بغل مادرش گریه می کند.

پیامبر می فرماید: گریه کردن بچه ها را دوست دارم. روی این می شود کار کرد. ما باید عذاب وجدان را دم در خانه ی خدا داشته باشیم و خبر داشته باشیم که خدا همه ناراحتی ما را جبران خواهد کرد. ما حق مان است که ناراحت باشیم چون گناه کرده ایم. خدا انسان را نوازش می کند. پس این عذاب وجدان علامت خوبی است. سعی نکنید این را زود از بین ببرید. در خانه ی خدا اشک بریزید!! مطمئن باشید خدا این وضعیت را دوست دارد.

 نکته پایانی:

انسان مؤمن باید پیوسته در حالت خوف و رجا به سر ببرد. یعنی هم از گناه و عواقب آن و عذاب الهی بترسد و هم به لطف و رحمت خداوند امیدوار باشد. و هیچ کدام بر دیگری پیشی نگیرد، به گونه ای که اگر با معیار و وسیله سنجش خاصی بتوان خوف و ترس از خدا را در یک طرف کفه ترازو قرار داد و امیدواری به رحمتش را در کفه دیگر ، هیچ طرفی بر دیگری ترجیح نداشته باشد. ولی شیطان وسوسهگر از آن جایی که دشمن سوگند خورده انسان است و می خواهد از هر راهی باشد بندگان خدا را از خدا دور کند، بعضی ها را با امیدواری بیش از حد به رحمت خدا به سوی گناه می کشاند و عده ای را نیز با خوف و ترس بیش از حد، از رحمت خدا نا امید می سازد تا بگوید: حالا آب که از سر گذشت چه یک وجب یا بیشتر ! عده ای را نیز با توجیهات و بافته های ذهنی یا زینت دادن و زیبا جلوه دادن عمل منحرف می کند.

 پی نوشت ها:

1. اسراء (17) آیه32.

2. قرائتی محسن، تفسیر نور، ج 8، ص 193، چاپ یازدهم ،انتشارات مرکز فرهنگی درسهایی از قرآن، تهران سال 1383‏.

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نوع مطلب : گناه، زنا، عذاب وجدان، 
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